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Street Fighting Moves Interviews – Michael Warren on 3 Secrets to Overcome Fear of Street-Fighting

Charles – In this article, I have an expert combat instructor who’s going to explain for us a very important topic that most people who are not used to combat need to overcome, and that’s the fear of fighting.  So, Michael is going to help us out, and give us 3 of his secrets to overcome the fear of fighting.  How are you doing this evening, Mike?

Warren – Pretty good, and ready to give everyone these 3 key secrets to help make themselves much more prepared for an altercations that they may come across out on the street.

Charles – Okay, let’s just rock and roll, and get right down to it.  Give us, one-by-one, the 3 secrets to overcome the fear of fighting.

Warren – Certainly,

The First Key Secret – Study A Defensive System (A System of Fighting) - Actually getting out and studying, whether you pick up a book, walk into a dojo, go into a personal self-protective seminar.  Finding out information about what a fight is and how you can better prepare yourself for it, you will instantly start to address your first fear which is the unknown.  Find out what a fight is. 

Charles – Okay, and number 2?

Warren – Okay,

Number Two – Actually Train - Find a method of addressing those key things that you found that you find frightening out in a fight.  This involves a method of training, and actually applying some of these theories with a partner, with yourself if you have to, visualization, and get over that initial feeling of getting hit.  Find out that it is not as necessarily as bad as you think, and as long as you keep you head on your shoulders, you can generally overcome that.  Get out there and try it. 

Charles – Okay, and what would be the third secret to overcome the fear of fighting?

Warren – Okay,

The Third Secret – Acknowledge That There Will Always Be Fear When Fighting Is Involved - But look at it from a medical standpoint.  That’s actually critical to your survival.  Having a sense of fear means you are going to have heightened senses of awareness.  Your body is going to be less receptive to actual pain, and your strength is going to be improved as you enter a fight or flight syndrome.  Actually, you want to have a little bit of fear.  That means you’re e not going around believing you are invincible.  And you’ll probably approach things with a realistic manner instead of trying to do some of the things you may see in some of the movies nowadays. 

Charles – (Laughter.)

Warren – So, having a little bit of fear and recognizing that, and that’s it’s okay, and that everyone fearful, even on the battlefield – is the third secret to overcoming fear is to recognize you have it.  Or as John Wayne said, “Real courage is being scared to hell, and saddling up anyway, Pilgrim.”

Charles – (Laughter.)  I like that.  Well that’s really clear, and we thank you so much for these three secrets.  And until the next time.

Warren – Until then.

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FTSE 100 movers: Miners decline on double-dip fear

FTSE 100 movers: Miners decline on double-dip fear
LONDON (SHARECAST) – Recession fears have knocked miners today. Concerns about demand mean that seven out of the top ten fallers are miners. Kazakhmys and ENRC top the fallers.

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Fear Or Greed: Which One Works Better For Hooking Private Money?

It’s no secret that fear and greed drive all investment decisions.

Case in point: I met with a private investor of mine last week for a nice evening out. This gentleman has over $300k invested in my company and is a valued investor. Needless to say, I do as much as I can to make him comfortable with his investment at all times. If he has questions about anything, I do my best to help him.

We had a great time over the course of the evening. But, one particular aspect of the conversation really stood out in my mind (and still does over 1 week later). He asked me if he could: “move some money around so that he could take more risk for higher returns.”

I was floored.

After all, just one year before (as the stock market was in a free fall and media pundits were speculating on the apocalypse) most regular investors (those with money in the stock market or other paper assets) were cashing out their money in droves. Mutual funds and hedge funds faced heavy redemptions.

The fear and panic of the stock market was a ‘boom’ in raising private money for me.

And now, just one year later, people were hungry to “take risks” again.

Quite interesting, don’t you think?

First of all, the thought process is completely reversed. The time to be “greedy” and want to “get in” is when there is fear and panic and pandemonium. The time to put your chips in is when all the media talking heads are telling you to invest in bullets and bomb shelters.

Admittedly, this is counter to how most human brains are wired. (But, hey, we’re real estate investors, we’re supposed to be wired different, right?!)

Secondly, the “take more risk” thing just doesn’t resonate with me. I believe that there is ABSOLUTELY NO CORRELATION BETWEEN RISK AND REWARD with investing.  I believe that there are differences between PRICE and VALUE. Price is what you pay, value is what you get (yes, I stole this from Warren Buffett – I’m past due on my royalties to him, anyway).

To tell a private investor that I would “take more risk” would be crazy – I cannot change my investing approach. Period. Why fix something that is not broken? You don’t tinker with an Indy 500 race car that is 3 laps ahead of the race – you let it roll. Just the same, I can’t change my mindset and take wild swings for just the possibility of a few percentage points more return.

But, most of your private investors will have this mindset.

Most of your private investors will swing on the pendulum between fear and greed. Hopefully, they stay peacefully in the middle.

Going back to my private investor – he was looking for a few percentage points more per year. While he did have a valid point that even 2-3% per year compounded adds up over time, he was overlooking the core fundamentals of good investing. He was already getting a nice, double digit return with us. He was getting good tax benefits for that investment. He was also able to invest with a company that he could talk to the owners, get updated financial information and have 100% transparency (something he would have never gotten with another investment).  In short, he was winning big by investing with me.

Fortunately, all it took was to remind him of these things and a brief discussion and he was quite content. Investor management will be an important part of your business as you raise six and seven figure private money sums. But, it’s well worth it.

When it comes to fear and greed, BOTH will play a vital role when you’re hooking private money. Depending on where the pendulum is, you’ll have to adjust your approach and your communications.

My advice: whatever the media pundits are saying or whatever is going on, stick to your principles. If you have a good foundation, nothing can rock it- and THAT is what will really pull the money in for you.

Adam Davis is a real estate investor, author, speaker and founder of Ultimate Private Money. He teaches real estate investors how to raise capital from private investors. Adam has completed hundreds of real estate deals- from single family house flips, lease options to apartment buildings, land contracts and hard money loans – all with none of his own money. All told, he has raised millions of dollars from private individuals to finance real estate deals. For a FREE audio program on how to get private money go to: http://www.UltimatePrivateMoney.com.